ONLINE THERAPY BASED IN MIDTOWN TORONTO & SERVING ALL OF ONTARIO
FOR WOMEN & COUPLES REBUILDING TRUST WHEN PUSHING THROUGH IS NO LONGER ENOUGH
THERAPY THAT SLOWS YOU DOWN - SO REAL CHANGE CAN HAPPEN.
Where pushing through isn’t the goal
(because you already have enough experience doing that).
JENNIFER BARTOK, MSW RSW | EFT PSYCHOTHERAPIST
You’ve probably spent a long time trying to power through things on your own.
Here you don’t have to.
By the time people reach out to me, they’ve usually already tried to manage, fix, reason, or push through what’s happening.
What they haven’t had is space to slow down safely - without being judged, rushed, or told what they should be feeling.
I’ve spent years helping high-functioning women and couples understand what happens underneath panic, shutdown, and betrayal - and how to shift it.
That’s the work I care about.
I work with:
High-functioning women at a breaking point
Couples rebuilding trust after betrayal
Often, the women I work with have spent years being capable and dependable - until panic, burnout, or something in their relationship makes that strategy stop working.
The couples I work with are often in crisis - but underneath that crisis are long-standing emotional patterns that shaped the relationship long before trust was broken.
I help both slow down enough to understand what’s actually happening.
You’re in the right spot.
How I work
At the core of my approach to therapy is a belief that trust can be rebuilt.
My work is attachment-focused and grounded in emotionally focused therapy.
That means we don’t just manage symptoms.
We look at:
How you learned to cope
What your nervous system has been carrying
How emotional patterns shape relationships
What happens underneath conflict, panic, or shutdown
Trust isn’t rebuilt through pressure.
It’s rebuilt through emotional clarity, consistency, and steadiness.
HERE’S what I believe about therapy:
This isn’t about fixing you.
You are not broken. The strategies that kept you safe just don’t need to run your life anymore.
The best investment you can make is in yourself.
Not in doing more or fixing faster — but in understanding the patterns that have been quietly running the show for years.
You deserve relationships where you don’t have to hold everything together alone.
Trust is built through steadiness, not pressure. Through consistency, not fear.
Get the support that’s right for you.
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I’m trained in a variety of therapy methods, allowing me to tailor my approach to your unique goals and needs. These include:
Acceptance commitment therapy (ACT)
Attachment theory
Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT)
Compassionate inquiry
Emotionally focused therapy (EFT)
Mindfulness-based cognitive therapy (MBCT)
Narrative therapy
Polyvagal theory
Solution focused therapy
Somatic therapy
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Emotionally-focused individual therapist (EFIT)
Emotionally-focused couples therapist (EFCT)
Emotionally-focused family therapist (EFFT)
EFT Externship - Robin Williams Blake
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) Attachment Science in Practice - Drs. Johnson, Campbell, Furrow, & Rheem
Emotionally Focused Family Therapy (EFFT) Level 2 - Dr. James Furrow & Gail Palmer
Emotionally Focused Family Therapy (EFFT) Level 1 - Dr. James Furrow & Gail Palmer
EFIT & Trauma Level 2 - Dr. Leanne Campbell
EFIT & Trauma Level 1 - Dr. Sue Johnson & Dr. Leanne Campbell
Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy (EFIT) - Dr. Sue Johnson
Ready to rebuild trust?
You don’t have to figure this out alone.
START WITH A 15-MINUTE CALL
START WITH A 15-MINUTE CALL
We’ll take it one step at a time.

